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DIY Flea Treatment

Last week I realized my pup, Zoe, had fleas! She’s never had any type of infestation so this was all new to me. I still don’t know how she got them, but after the initial shock of this sunk in, I kicked into action and started researching treatment options.

Just as I try to utilize organic products in my home and beauty products, I also try to utilize organic products with Zoe. Being a new believer in doTERRA essential oils, I decided I would put them to the test. I did some extensive research, then put together a flea killing-slash-deterrent spray.

This is a simple DIY spray that can be made in 5 minutes flat. You can find an inexpensive empty spray bottle at your local dollar store – I found mine in the dollar bin at Target. You will also have plenty of essential oils remaining after creating this spray that you can use for various other uses.

After giving Zoe a bath and drying her off, I sprayed her with this essential oil spray. I also washed all of my linens in addition to her bedding and then gave them a generous spray. After vacuuming all of my flooring, I sprayed the carpets and couches as well.

Never having experienced this in the past, I wasn’t sure how long it would take to get rid of this infestation and I was determined to stay on top of it. After utilizing this regimen every day, all of her fleas were completely gone within 48 hours. WOW!

I continue to spray my bedding, couch, and carpets every 1-2 days, and continue to spray her daily as a precaution, however all signs of fleas are completely gone. I cannot tell you how relieved I am to not only have taken away this discomfort from my pup, but to also know that I didn’t have to resort to harsh chemicals to keep my fur baby and my home clean & sanitary!

Supplies:

Spray bottle (I used a 4 oz. bottle)
doTERRA Lemongrass essential oil
doTERRA Lavender essential oil
doTERRA Peppermint essential oil
Filtered water

Step 1: Fill up empty spray bottle with filtered water

Step 2: Add 5-8 drops of Peppermint, 5-8 drops of Lemongrass, and 4-6 drops of Lavender to the filtered water in the spray botttle

Step 3: Shake vigorously

Step 4: Spray away!

flea spray

 

You could also spray this on a bandanna and wrap it around your fur baby to use as an all-natural flea collar.

With animals it can be stressful starting a new treatment regimen because they aren’t able to voice if they’re in pain, discomfort, or if they’re feeling relief. It’s on us as owners to be vigilant and watch for these signs.

There are many essential oils that should never be used on animals and each animal may have individual allergies & reactions, so please use caution before implementing your own regimen. Please reach out if you have any questions, success stories, or concerns!

The light in me honors the light in you.

A New Adventure!

I’m so excited to announce that I’ve been accepted to the Institute for the Psychology of Eating’s Psychology of Eating Coaching Program! I will begin this new adventure in October and I’m counting the days!

I knew that an empowering coaching program was in my future, but finding a program that was the right fit for me was not an easy process. I spent hours upon hours researching coaching programs. I knew I couldn’t enroll in a program that trained me to provide meal plans to clients, as that strategy doesn’t align with my values and mission to empower individuals to get in touch with their intuition and learn the origin of their cravings.

Providing someone with a meal plan does not empower them- it simply tells them exactly what to feed themselves. My goal is to find the root of an individual’s cravings- to help people trust their body again, honor the body’s cravings, and learn to eat when hungry and stop when satisfied. Unfortunately, programs that empower individuals in this way are few and far between.

Once I discovered the Psychology of Eating coaching program at the Institute for the Psychology of Eating, I knew I had found a program that aligned with my philosophy of empowerment.

In less than a year I will be a certified Mind, Body, Eating Coach and I couldn’t be more excited. The last couple of years have been guiding me to this program and have solidified my life’s purpose to empower individuals to heal their relationship with food and with their bodies. I will be utilizing yoga, meditation, Vedic Yoga Thai Bodywork, essential oils, and eating psychology to tap into the incredibly powerful intuition we all have within us.

I can’t wait to continue to update you with my progress, and to announce when I will begin to accept clients!

The light in me honors the light in you.

doTERRA

Throughout my healing journey, I’ve experienced the firsthand benefits of yoga, meditation, Reiki, Vedic Yoga Thai Bodywork, and more. However essential oils weren’t included in that path until recently.

One of my mentors utilizes doTERRA essential oils within AromaTouch therapy. She also incorporates it into her Reiki practice, and has been working her healing techniques on me. As with most new experiences, I was skeptical at first, thinking there would be a placebo effect at play during these sessions.

After going over my initial symptoms, including digestive issues and general anxiety, she performed her healing modalities and then sent me home with samples of essential oils, with instructions of how to utilize them until our next appointment. I started by implementing Frankincense and then incorporated Cedarwood as well. Within days I noticed improvements of my digestive issues, and then started to notice how these essential oils have uplifted my mood and general anxiety. I knew I wanted to dive into this healing modality more deeply.

Since I have personally experienced the benefits of these essential oils I have been pouring over literature about the science of essential oils, the various essential oil companies, origins of essential oils, the list goes on and on. I contacted my mentor to purchase the large sizes of oils and we also discussed me joining her doTERRA team. I wasn’t sure I was ready to take that leap yet (as a Taurus, I have to examine all perspectives and angles before making a final decision!). However after meditating on this further, I knew this was a company and a healing modality that I need to be a part of so we went for it!

My first order came today, in which I received my first essential oil diffuser, among other fun items. I cannot say enough amazing things about the peaceful sound, the soothing aroma of the oil I selected to diffuse, and the soft lighting that the diffuser offers. I feel strongly that essential oils have not been a part of my healing journey until now because I wasn’t ready to commit to the extensive learning involved in this endeavor, but now I am diving in completely.

I can’t wait to share more of this journey with all of you. Right now I am using this new role as a way to increase my education and will then begin to spread that knowledge with others, to empower them in their own healing journeys! If you have any questions, tips or more, please reach out!

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The light in me honors the light in you.

Love Letter To My Body

Now that we’re deep into the months of summer, I’ve been reflecting on my relationship with my body over my lifetime, particularly in relation to the seasons. The summer season was traditionally a season of manic ups and downs, depending upon the reflection I saw in the mirror, the number on the scale, or the food I had consumed. The past few summers, however, have been seasons that I simply allow to come and go. I honor my body as it is in that season of my life and continue to treat it with love.

I suppose as I develop to nurture my relationship with food and my body, this is a natural result, and can also be easily overlooked. I am taking a moment to pause and celebrate how far I have come because there were times when I truly never thought I could have the relationship I have with my body. For that I am eternally thankful and grateful!
In honor of these reflections, I have written a love letter to my body.

 

To My Uniquely Perfect Body,

Wow, what a journey it’s been so far!

First, I come to you to humbly ask for your forgiveness. Although I don’t have clear memories of loving and appreciating you prior to when I started hating you and then harming you, I do remember days of childhood where I felt completely comfortable within you. Memories of wearing colorful swimsuits as an 8 year-old without feeling the need to cover up; of coordinating daily outfits that included shorts and tank tops throughout the summer without picking apart each piece of flesh that was exposed.

Remember when I sunburned you so badly at cheer camp in eighth grade…? Me too. Sorry about that. I was only trying to toast you slightly. Unfortunately for you, it would take me years to realize we are both much happier sitting under the umbrella, with a big floppy hat and sunglasses.

Throughout the years we’ve definitely been through our ups and downs. There are too many years when I told you how disgusting you are, while abusing you day in and day out. But all the while, you were there. You’ve always been there for me, talking to me, supporting me, healing yourself to show me how strong and amazing you truly are. I only needed to listen.

Years went by and then slowly, very slowly, I started to see you differently. I began to eat  foods based upon what you needed. I started to drink more water and less alcohol. And I felt you responding to me with love and comfort, which only made me want to continue to provide you with more abundant goodness.

When we finished our first 10k… how amazing was that?! I could feel my heart pumping with enthusiastic euphoria- asking when we could do that again! And in the dim lights of a yoga studio, when I started to feel you again. When tears of gratitude, shame, and support overflowed down my face. And I could hear you whisper to me “Stay here with me, and we can find each other again. I want our healthy relationship back. I’m here.”

I can’t wait to continue to discover more of you, and all of the amazing things that we can do together.  May I continue to come as I am to my mat, and to live each day to fully embrace this body I’ve been blessed to inhabit.

With gratitude,
Jessica

 

The light in me honors to the light in you. 

Another Published Article!

Another article of mine has been published- this time by the amazing Harness Magazine! This is my second article to be published by this magazine and I continue to choose to send them my pieces because of their mission of equipping women to share, empathize, and uplift one another.

Check out my latest article here, and check out Harness Magazine here!

 

The light in me honors the light in you

Earning Food: Mindful/Intuitive Eating

How often do we feel guilt even before we’ve started to eat certain foods? For some of us these foods are carbs, or chocolate, ice cream, even fruit- the list is never ending.

I am reflecting on the concept of “earned food” as I savor a piece of dark chocolate with blueberries. Years ago, before I learned mindful eating/intuitive eating practices, I would have devoured this chocolate, perhaps reached for more without pause, and then berated myself mere moments later- demeaning myself for my lack of willpower and loss of control.

This is what we’re taught to believe: that eating “forbidden” foods is a sign of weakness. The diet and fitness industry has made millions of dollars on the concept of good carbs and bad carbs, good starch and bad starch, good fruit and bad fruit. I call bullshit.

When we are out of tune with out body, we are reactive in nature. Have an uncomfortable feeling? Reach for the brownies. Got rejected? Unload a bag of potato chips. It doesn’t have to be this way. By introducing practices such as meditation into our lives, we begin to gain the ability to become an observer of our thoughts, feelings, and emotions, as opposed to being a slave to them. When we gain the ability to view our thoughts as simply additional information, we can then view them in a more holistic way. Sometimes they may still mean you reach for the brownie, and that’s great! The difference is this time you’re fully aware of why you’re craving that particular food, and you can eat it more mindfully, with gratitude for what it’s providing to your body in that moment. Then when you are satiated, you can be done eating and move on. It truly can be that simple.

Food is not something to be earned, it is an energy source to be consumed and utilized to allow us to live our lives to our fullest potential. How incredible is that?! The next time you have an overwhelming craving, perhaps take a moment to breathe into it. Ask yourself where the craving is originating and if that’s truly what you need. Perhaps you need a nap, a bath, or a hug instead. Listen. And then proceed as your body is directing. Continue to practice this as you can and see how your relationship with your mind, body, and food evolves.

 

I would love to hear your experiences with mindful/intuitive eating!

Words To Share

The following poem by Marianne Williamson has spoken to me currently. Just last night I printed this poem and framed it to place in my office. I need to be surrounded by these words right now.

It also reminds me of this post about the fear of success. I hope you find what you need in these words as well:

Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate.
Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure.
It is our light, not our darkness
That most frightens us.
We ask ourselves
Who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, fabulous?
Actually, who are you not to be?
You are a child of God.
Your playing small
Does not serve the world.
There’s nothing enlightened about shrinking
So that other people won’t feel insecure around you.
We are all meant to shine,
As children do.
We were born to make manifest
The glory of God that is within us.
It’s not just in some of us;
It’s in everyone.
And as we let our own light shine,
We unconsciously give other people permission to do the same.
As we’re liberated from our own fear,
Our presence automatically liberates others.

 

The light in me honors the light in you.

Mundane Mondays

In an effort to listen to my body’s cues to let go of some control and look inward, I’ve been making an effort to be more intentional.
We all know that social media shows the highlight reels of life. The best of times. Moments in which we are living our most fabulous lives.
And we also know that depression, as well as feelings of loneliness and isolation are at an all-time high.

In reflection of living more intentionally I’ve noticed it is within the seemingly mundane moments that I find the most joy. Those moments that can be easily overlooked. The moments that rarely get posted because, well, they seem boring. So I’m starting #MundaneMonday. Each Monday I will post my favorite mundane memories from the week prior.

I’m doing this to remind myself that in truth these moments aren’t mundane at all. These moments are where life happens. This life is extraordinary and difficult and stressful and pure and gritty. So instead of spending life waiting for “big” moments, I want to make sure I celebrate each small, seemingly mundane moment as well.

My #MundaneMonday moments from last week: waking up to the sounds of my pup dreaming, cuddle puddle with my boyfriend, & going to church with a friend on Sunday.

Share your mundane moments with me!

 

The light in me honors the light in you.

I Love Myself, Therefore….

“I love myself, therefore…” how would you complete this sentence?

How does that sentence make you feel? Do you instantly start to feel anxious or uncomfortable? Great! Lean into that. Why does the thought of loving yourself bring up these feelings? Often we live our lives from the perspective of limiting beliefs that, over time, we have accepted as truth. The real truth is these beliefs are lies- messages we have been told growing up, maybe from scorned lovers, or messages fed to us from the media.

Some of these lies may include “You’re not good enough”, “You’ll never have enough money”, “Thin is beautiful”, “Conflict is bad”, etc.

It is so easy to continue these limiting belief loops, well, because that has been our norm. They’re so ingrained in us we don’t consciously think of them, unaware of how powerfully they affect how we perceive ourselves and the world around us. And by choosing to change these beliefs, we are choosing to fight our brain patterns (I’ll do another post on how the brain is affected by our thoughts), which takes time and consistency.

By choosing to change these beliefs, we are choosing to make a difficult decision. But if our normal pattern includes berating ourselves day in and day out, should we simply allow this to continue? Think about it this way: If you said the messages that you replay in your head out loud to a loved one, hopefully they wouldn’t continue exposing themselves to that type of abuse. So why do we consider it acceptable for us to continue to constantly belittle ourselves internally?!  Making the difficult decision to change this thinking is so worth it. This is your life we’re talking about.

So let’s take a look at how we can start to change these belief patterns….

Mantras are a great way to start to challenge limiting beliefs. Mantras can be created for a year, a month, a moment- there’s a mantra for any season or situation! At the beginning of this year I wrote out the mantras from which I wanted to live out each day. I focused on one in particular and made it a point to repeat the following mantra hundreds of times per day: “I love and accept myself exactly as I am.” 

The prospect of saying a mantra hundreds of times per day seemed excessive at first, but I quickly realized it paled in comparison to the number of times per day I was telling myself numerous limiting beliefs.  And those limiting beliefs became even more apparent to me when I started to challenge them.  For a while, and perhaps even now, my limiting beliefs- those lies that I have been told and have told myself- have been screaming at me. Attempting to derail my relationships and keep me from fulfilling my true potential.

Some days I don’t feel like this mantra is truthful in any way. But I continue to speak  it anyway.  Some days I am exhausted from fighting to simply love myself, and other days I realize that my worldview has been starting to shift to a perspective of love.  I realize I am looking at people around me from a place of peace and humanity as opposed to a place of judgement. I realize I am listening to truly listen, not simply waiting to drown another in my opinions. And I know this all stems from me choosing to love myself first.

I am still primarily focusing on this one main mantra, and have also included the following mantras throughout the day, even if only first thing in the morning and before I go to bed.

“I am willing to change”

“The thoughts I am thinking and the words I am declaring at this moment are creating my future”

“I release all resistance”

“Everything I need to know is revealed to me”

“Everything I need comes to me”

“I am young, youthful, and full of vitality”

“Money flows to me in abundance”

“Everything I touch is a success”

When we change our perspective from one of untruths and limiting beliefs to one of love and acceptance, we start to see our entire world change. Because our perception of the world is changing. A world we did not allow ourselves to see starts to reveal itself to us. Beauty and good and love are here, but it’s not until we love ourselves that we are able to truly see it surrounding us.

How would you complete this sentence “I love myself, therefore….”? Simply put pen to paper and write without thinking- without letting those limiting beliefs creep in. Write all of the ways in which you choose to treat yourself and others, from the perspective of love. Then write a mantra and don’t give up on it or yourself. Speak it to yourself 300-400 times per day (yes, seriously). It’s not too late to save yourself from your beliefs. Your truth is fighting to be discovered again.

 

The light in me honors the light in you.